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HUNTING FOR NEW FRIENDS – AND HOW IT WENT








Jeg er godt nok lidt tung i hovedet i dag. Ikke forbi den fik total gas i går, men der skal åbenbart ikke mere end en cocktail til et event og en halv flaske vin med Andreas til, før hovedpinen melder sig dagen efter. Det er nok fordi, at det er lang tid siden, at jeg har drukket mere end en enkelt genstand på en aften. På trods af at jeg er lidt træt i kroppen i dag og egentlig mest dur til at ligge stille ved poolen og læse i min bog, så tænkte jeg, at jeg lige ville give jer en update på, hvordan minveninde-jagt gik i går . 😉

Med en frygt for at det ville blive det mærkeligste nogensinde, tog jeg af sted – og heldigvis blev det ikke en beslutning, som jeg kom til at fortryde. Jeg mødte nogle rigtig søde piger, og det var tydeligt, at vi alle sammen var i samme båd. Vi er alle flyttet fra gode og trygge rammer i vores hjemland, ud til et nyt liv hvor hverken familie eller veninder er i nærheden. Alle var ligesom indstillet på, at det handlede om at hygge sig og lære hinanden at kende.

Jeg synes stadig, at det var en random situation at stå i, men det hører sig jo nok til, hvis man gerne vil have en omgangskreds i sit nye “hjemland.”

Mit bedste tip til andre, der også flytter til udlandet, er altså at gå Facebook igennem for forskellige grupper. Her ude er der virkelig mange forskellige “danskere i Vietnam” “female expats and locals in Ho Chi Minh” “Expats in Ho Chi Minh” mm. Der er super mange sjove opslag og også en del events, som man kan melde sig til for at møde nogle nye mennesker. Lige dér er internettet og særligt Facebook altså helt vildt genialt! 🙂

English: Today my head feels a little heavy. Not because i went all in last night, but apparently it only takes one cocktail and a half bottle of wine to get a hangover. I think it’s be because it’s long time since i had more than one drink at the same night. Even though i feel a little tired today and just want to relax by the pool with my book, i feel like i should give you guys an update on my friend-hunting last night.

Before I left i though it would be the most random thing ever, but lucky for me it went very well and the evening was so cozy. There were some really nice girls, and it was very clearly that we all attended for the same reason – to meet new people to hangout with while living in Vietnam, far away from friends and family.

I think it is what you have to do if you want to make friends in a new country. It was fun but also a very special situation. My best tip for others settling down in a new destination is to check Facebook. Here in Vietnam there are tons of groups like “danish people in Vietnam” “female expats and locals in Ho Chi Minh” “Expats in Ho Chi Minh” ect. There you can find other people to connect with and maybe also events like the one i went to last night. In this case the internet and especially Facebook is genius.

// Josephine

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